Tips and Tricks

Men have this idea that all women are the same and that once they've learned a special technique it will work with all women. The reality is that the majority of women cannot cum through sexual intercourse alone. As we mentioned in the last post, only about 10% of women can orgasm by g-spot stimulation, which means that there has to be some sort of other stimulation as well.

When a woman masturbates, she tends to rub side-to-side on her clitoris. There seems to be better results with left-to-right motions as opposed to going up and down. When going down on her, try using your tongue in that same left-to-right motion. We know that going up and down comes more natural, but really try and practice this left-to-right motion technique, if push comes to shove lay perpendicular to her in order to still move your tongue up and down but create a left to right motion on her clitoris; we promise she will feel the difference and have her eyes rolling back.

Another technique that seems to be a crowd pleaser but takes a little more skill is the figure eights. With your tongue, you literally want to draw the number 8 around her clitoris. This is a technique that is sure to do the trick! But remember; do not rely on this technique alone, it's all about variation.

A popular technique that also works quite well is drawing the alphabet with your tongue. It provides variation with continuous stimulation. Try this while alternating speed and intensity until you find the right rhythm that works for your girl.

If you're in the middle of the carnal act, try using your fingers to stimulate her clitoris. Doing this will have her in a frenzy. You can even try to have her do it herself while you're inside her. I'm sure this will be a new experience for both of you; she gets the stimulation she needs while giving you a sneak peak at what she does behind closed doors.

So men, please don't group us all and assume that using same boring techniques work with among all women. Not all kitties are created equally.

Now ladies, if your men are going through all this trouble to give you the big "O" there are also some fool proof tricks you can use to blow his mind away. Keep in mind that men really love a woman who enjoys giving oral, so even if it's not your favorite thing, fake it. Look him in the eyes a couple of times and moan a bit, trust us it really works.

When giving him a blow job, start off by licking from the bottom of the shaft up. This move is commonly known as the lollipop, the reason it works so well is because the same tissue that makes up a clitoris makes up the head of the penis and the frenulum (that little part right underneath the head), making it the most sensitive parts. By licking bottom up your creating anticipation so when you finally lick the head the pleasure will be intensified. Make sure to pay special attention to the frenulum by giving it a few extra licks.

Once you have his penis in your mouth use your tongue to draw circles around the head while stroking his shaft. Change directions from clockwise to counterclockwise with your tongue to provide variety. This move can also be done with the palm of your hand by mimicking the motion done when squeezing a lemon on a juicer. Take his penis and use your hand to rotate it around the head, make sure you have plenty of lubrication. This move will have his eyes rolling into the back of his head.

When giving a blow job remember to use your tongue to lick while you maintain suction. Don't just bob up and down; lick, suck, and use your hand to keep the whole penis covered. Alternate speed and depth. Make sure you throw in a few deep ones to keep him entertained, but don't over do it. Remember ladies the trick to deep throat is to relax the throat and ease the penis in, but don't go further than you're comfortable with.

Lastly don't forget the family jewels, keep them involved by massaging them gently or licking them. And as a friendly reminder ladies keep the teeth concealed (try imitating a grandma with no dentures, by tucking your lips under your teeth), no man wants Jaws going down on them.

Remember to K.I.S.S.

- A&A

G-Spot

Most people have never heard of Ernst Gräfenberg, but they sure know of his research. He was the German gynecologist that through his study on urethral stimulation came the term G-Spot. This special spot is located in the upper wall of the vagina about 1 to 3 inches inside and feels like a small spongy pad. Now, I'm sure we all have heard of the G-Spot and have a clear understanding to what it is. It's the spot that, when stimulated, can bring any woman to orgasm.

The positioning of the G-Spot is actually relatively difficult for a woman to touch for herself, but her partner can get to it by inserting one or two fingers. Once the partner has located the G-Spot, they can rub it in small circles or use the ever popular "come hither" motion. If done just right, the woman may have the urge to urinate, but that feeling will subside and feelings of pure pleasure take over. While stroking the G-Spot, a fluid may come out of the urethra. It is virtually colorless and tends to smell very sweet.

Although many women will admit to feeling this amazing little spot, most will tell you that stroking the G-Spot alone will not get the job done, while others will say the orgasm feels stronger and more powerful. These women who can orgasm through G-Spot stimulation alone can tell you that it is a completely different type of orgasm compared to a clitoral stimulated orgasm. After a woman has had a G-Spot induced orgasm, she might be very restless and unable to move from its intensity.

There are a few positions that can help with G-Spot stimulation: doggie-style, missionary but with her legs on her partner's chest/shoulders and reverse cowgirl. When positioned in the right way, a woman can achieve a G-Spot orgasm through doggie-style position. First, the woman must be on all fours, spread her legs and arch her back slightly. Keeping an arched back will help to create the perfect angle for G-Spot stimulation. The purpose of doggie-style is to help with full penetration. Many women say they can feel their partner in their stomachs!

While doing the missionary position, the woman can lift her legs up and lean them on the partner's chest/shoulders; this position also creates a great angle to hit the G-Spot. The man can lean on her thighs while the woman can guide him by the hips into her. Women can also try folding a pillow in half and putting it under their butt without raising their legs on his chest/shoulders. This can help create a very similar position without the acrobatics.

Lastly, there is the reverse cowgirl; similar to girl on top, but with her face facing the man's feet. The woman is in total control in this position and can go as fast or slow as she'd like. Keep in mind that while doing this position, she should lean forward to hit the G-Spot at the right angle. When done correctly, she will also have some clitoral stimulation as well while grinding on her man.

For the ladies that are going solo and want some G-Spot stimulation or the men brave enough to allow toys in the bedroom, there are some toys designed special for this. The main thing you want to keep in mind is having a toy with a curve at the tip. This curve will allow you to hit the G-Spot with every stroke. Try going to the sex shop with your partner and choosing a toy out together.

Now, with all of the G-Spot talk, I'm sure that most of you will be shocked to know that studies show that only about 10% of women can actually orgasm this way. This means that 90% need other ways to get off. Some women need more stimulation on their clitoris to really get off. Stay tuned for the next post where we will give you more ways to see your ladies "O" face!

Remember to K.I.S.S.

A&A