G-Spot

Most people have never heard of Ernst Gräfenberg, but they sure know of his research. He was the German gynecologist that through his study on urethral stimulation came the term G-Spot. This special spot is located in the upper wall of the vagina about 1 to 3 inches inside and feels like a small spongy pad. Now, I'm sure we all have heard of the G-Spot and have a clear understanding to what it is. It's the spot that, when stimulated, can bring any woman to orgasm.

The positioning of the G-Spot is actually relatively difficult for a woman to touch for herself, but her partner can get to it by inserting one or two fingers. Once the partner has located the G-Spot, they can rub it in small circles or use the ever popular "come hither" motion. If done just right, the woman may have the urge to urinate, but that feeling will subside and feelings of pure pleasure take over. While stroking the G-Spot, a fluid may come out of the urethra. It is virtually colorless and tends to smell very sweet.

Although many women will admit to feeling this amazing little spot, most will tell you that stroking the G-Spot alone will not get the job done, while others will say the orgasm feels stronger and more powerful. These women who can orgasm through G-Spot stimulation alone can tell you that it is a completely different type of orgasm compared to a clitoral stimulated orgasm. After a woman has had a G-Spot induced orgasm, she might be very restless and unable to move from its intensity.

There are a few positions that can help with G-Spot stimulation: doggie-style, missionary but with her legs on her partner's chest/shoulders and reverse cowgirl. When positioned in the right way, a woman can achieve a G-Spot orgasm through doggie-style position. First, the woman must be on all fours, spread her legs and arch her back slightly. Keeping an arched back will help to create the perfect angle for G-Spot stimulation. The purpose of doggie-style is to help with full penetration. Many women say they can feel their partner in their stomachs!

While doing the missionary position, the woman can lift her legs up and lean them on the partner's chest/shoulders; this position also creates a great angle to hit the G-Spot. The man can lean on her thighs while the woman can guide him by the hips into her. Women can also try folding a pillow in half and putting it under their butt without raising their legs on his chest/shoulders. This can help create a very similar position without the acrobatics.

Lastly, there is the reverse cowgirl; similar to girl on top, but with her face facing the man's feet. The woman is in total control in this position and can go as fast or slow as she'd like. Keep in mind that while doing this position, she should lean forward to hit the G-Spot at the right angle. When done correctly, she will also have some clitoral stimulation as well while grinding on her man.

For the ladies that are going solo and want some G-Spot stimulation or the men brave enough to allow toys in the bedroom, there are some toys designed special for this. The main thing you want to keep in mind is having a toy with a curve at the tip. This curve will allow you to hit the G-Spot with every stroke. Try going to the sex shop with your partner and choosing a toy out together.

Now, with all of the G-Spot talk, I'm sure that most of you will be shocked to know that studies show that only about 10% of women can actually orgasm this way. This means that 90% need other ways to get off. Some women need more stimulation on their clitoris to really get off. Stay tuned for the next post where we will give you more ways to see your ladies "O" face!

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